What If You Could Create A Child Custody Plan Without Costly Attorneys and Time-Consuming Court Dates?

I've Done It.

And I Want To Share How I Did It With You...


You never planned that your marriage wouldn’t work out.

You never even dreamed that you’d have to stand up and "fight" to see your own child.

And you certainly weren’t prepared to go to Court to have to tell a bunch of complete strangers why you are fit to be a parent.

But now you are confronted with what could be a major life change.

And suddenly, perhaps for the first time in your life, there is another person in the world that is affected by your romantic break-up: Your Child.

You might not have had a choice in the matter, which can make it even more painful to deal with.

There’s a good chance that you feel unprepared, intimidated and even a little scared.

I know I did when my family broke-up! And that fear of the unknown was overwhelming at the time.

Suddenly, you are faced with a challenge: Two Parents not living together and children whom you both love dearly.

Questions start to race around in your mind. Questions like...

Who does your child spend time with?

How much time are you going to get to spend with your child?

Are you going to have to pay out child support to your Ex-Partner?

What if I never get to see my daughter play softball again or I don’t get invited to my son’s piano recital?

These are legitimate questions that are often very painful to deal with.

I know this firsthand because I had these questions when my Previous Partner and I broke up.

My story might be just like yours.

If you are struggling right now in a similar situation, I assure you that it’s going to be okay. In fact, it’s going to be better than okay.

You’ve been given a choice, a deciding factor on what to do in this moment and for moments moving into the future.

A choice to create something that works.

That is exactly why I wrote my book called "Custody Without Courts".

What I didn't realize was that my Co-Parent and I had "stumbled" onto a way to make our own custody agreement. We made an agreement that is not only workable, but actually adds joy to our lives.

It wasn't until I saw my friends and fellow Co-Parents at school, PTA meetings and soccer practice challenged and frustrated with their situations that I realized we could help them, so I did.

Co-Parenting Pain

You aren't the first couple with children that couldn't work it out. Also, you aren't going to be the last.

And while we might strive to be ordinary, meaning that we just fit in and have a life that is "normal", I want to take you to a world that is extraordinary.

I really mean that.

I was able to go from being fearful of my Previous Partner, so feeling empowered and expressed with her.

I want to assure you that you're life is worth living and it's worth living with your Kids, your Co-Parent and your Spouse in a way that isn't challenging and frustrating.

You don't have to live with that low-level axiety that plauges so many court-driven custody agreements.

Do you ever feel like you need to "walk on eggshells" around your Previous Partner?

Or that you are afraid that your child might tell your Co-Parent something "scandalous" about you?

I know that I've felt that way in the past, but I’ve moved beyond that.

Not only did I move beyond it, I created a Custody Agreement with my Ex that gives us the space to raise amazing kids.

Look, we have enough stress just being a human, with things like taxes, work and having to act like an adult.

I do many things in my life to avoid added pressure and frustration.

My Child's Custody Agreement isn't one of those stressors.

What I want to provide for you is a path to a life that is Extraordinary. A life that is so lush and wonderful that you bounce out of bed and look forward to walking your kids to school, going to a job you love and never needing to worry about what your Co-Parent thinks of you again.

This is a bold statement, I know. However, it's attainable.

So, How Does This Actually Work?

After we get the emotional aspect handled, I have three sections completely devoted to your actual Custody Agreement.

First, we define the Custody Agreement into categories. Think of these as the concerns that each parent is going to have when it comes to the well-being of their child.

I mentioned a few of these earlier.

And if there is something I missed that is unique to your situation you will have the flexibility to add that at any time.

The 7 different categories that you're going to define for your Custody Agreement are:

  • Creating A Parenting Time Table
  • Medical and Health Care
  • Legal Responsibility
  • Education and Extracurricular Activities
  • Child Exchanges
  • Parental Guidelines
  • Traveling and Vacations

  • Once we clearly define these to what works for you and your Co-Parent, you're going to leverage technology to get your plan into written form.

    And if that sounds like a ton of work, don't worry. I've setup a shared Cloud document that you can copy and use for yourself.

    The Cloud document is great because it works with your existing Google Account (basically the Gmail you already have) and automatically has things like revision history enabled so that you can make adjustments on the fly and see when changes were made.

    You can share it with your Co-Parent so that both of you have access to it.

    My Parenting Promise

    Of all the things in my life, I value being a parent most of all.

    Sure, I can be a "good" husband and a "valuable" team mate at work, but being a Dad is my biggest responsibility with the greatest reward.

    You and I already have a bond in that we love our children and really want what's best for them.

    We've been through the pain of a break-up that costs us our family, yet we're still alive and want to make a difference for our kids.

    This is why I know you are going to get a ton of value from my book.

    If not for you or your previous Partner, do it for your Child.

    When it's ready, I'll let you know. I can't wait for you to download it, read it and put the plan into motion.

    You'll get the shared doc and then you'll fill out your own Custody agreement.

    Then the best part comes: You put it into immediate action.

    Your custody plan will be clear, easy to follow and (best of all) free from expensive Attorneys, time-consuming Court dates and the constraints of "the State".

    The Future Of Your Child Is At Stake... Make sure YOU are the one that is going to shape it for them.

    Maybe it didn't work out long-term between you and your Previous Partner, but that doesn't mean there needs to be anxiety, stress and frustration between you. Especially when it's about your child.

    You know as well as I do, that if you want to escape the trap of lawyers and the State determining who is fit to be a parent, you are going to need to work with a Co-Parent.

    And in order to work together, one of you is going to need to take initiative.

    As unreasonable as it might sound to suggest that you "work with your Previous Partner", I assure you that when you start to put the "Custody Without Courts" Book into action, things are going to change.

    Don't let a confusing Court System or an expensive attorney decide the how and when you can see your child. Take control now, if not for your own sanity but for the sake of your child.

    It's not about power or clout... As you are about to learn, you can get a Child Custody Agreement handled with anyone, regardless of how well you get along now.

    Your child's future is worth creating a Custody Agreement that is workable.

    Do you want to get this settled once and for all? Are you ready to get your Child Custody Agreement handled?

    My "Make You Unstoppable" Assurance

    My Book is available for for free and is only available from this site. I offer a 30-Day Money Back Guarentee: If you are unsatisfied for any reason, I will refund this cost and let you keep the Book. You get the download link immediately sent to you so you can start reading it within the next 10 minutes.

    You see, this is like my "Co-Parenting Contract" with you.

    Let me ask you this: What if you applied the knowledge in my book and came to an agreement that put your Child first and got you exactly what you want without fighting or frustration?

    What would you pay to have that kind of peace in your life? A hundred dollars? A thousand dollars? Ten thousand or more? For most Co-Parents, it’s literally priceless.

    Just the POSSIBILITY of being able to talk to my Co-Parent and be heard, understood and respected is a feeling that I can’t put a price on.

    I’ve personally invested over 16 years in a co-created and self-managed Child Custody Agreement. I’ve also helped other single parent families create transformed relationships with their Co-Parents.

    This much is for sure: If you don’t get this handled it’s just going to continue to frustrate both you and your Co-Parent, not to mention that your Child is going to be exposed to conflict and fighting. And no one wants that.

    It’s an amazing feeling when you don’t have the buzz of a Co-Parent constantly in your ear, or that gnawing feeling that they want to punish you. It’s freeing to you know exactly when a Co-Parent is going to show up and when you are dropping your kids off.

    In turn, this frees you up. You can begin by spending quality time with your kids and focusing on things that matter to them. You can take on things that are going to better you, like losing weight to be healthier for your children and saving money by not having to hire an attorney to represent you.

    I have one final thought to share with you.

    After being personally involved with Co-Parents for almost two decades I know one thing: If you don’t make the decision to get this part of your life handled right now, there’s a very small chance that you’re going to do anything about it in the future.

    I’ve seen this time and time again with Co-Parents that just “put up with” their Previous Partner.

    Have you heard the saying "you can’t tell someone how to get somewhere unless you’ve been there yourself?" Well, I’ve been there and I’m going to show you the way.

    This is possibly the most important investment you’ll ever make for yourself and your children.

    Click the download button and get my book now.

    It's available as a PDF, ePub (for iPad) and Mobi (for Kindle), so you can read it on any device that you use.

    And to really complete this package, here are two bonus books that are going to dive into even more specifics.

    First Bonus Book: Drama-Free Drop-Offs

    One of the most challenging things for everyone involved in CoParenting is the "drop-off".

    This is because, unlike money and physical issues, CoParents can't hide during an exchange.

    And rather than having the transition be a pain, there is a chance to create an opportunity.

    It's a chance for both Parents to be available for your child and to really "show up" for them, as you being together as a family was the paradigm they shared with you since their birth.

    The "drop-off" is a way to demonstrate that love directly to your kids and in this bonus book I show you exactly how to maximize it.

    Second Bonus Book: 3 Steps To Get Over Your Ex

    If you are still struggling with the emotional compents of a break-up, you are going to want to read this bonus book first.

    Inside are three clear and easy-to-follow steps that will allow you to erase the pain of your previous relationship forever.

    And when I say forever, I mean it.

    In fact, part of the break-up of my child's mother was the motivation and "self-therapy" I needed to write this book.

    Need To Talk About Your Custody Plan Specifics?

    For a limited time, I am going to offer 20 minute counseling consultations included with the purchase of "Custody Without Courts". These will be done using the phone or Skype and at a time that is convenient for you.

    After you complete the download process below, you will be sent a sign-up form for our sessions in the same email that has the download link for the Book.

    Click the button below for a secure checkout and to get instant access to the "Custody Without Courts" Book, along with a sign-up form for us to connect.

    About Thom

    My name is Thom and I wrote the book "Custody Without Courts" after setting up my own Custody Agreement over 14 years ago. I live in Portland, Oregon with my Family and Co-Parent. For work, I do IT Administration for a Relationship Advice company and enjoy spending time with my kids. My Daughter is active in Music and Art and my Son plays Soccer and Basketball.

    Thank you for being part of my journey. My greatest hope is that I help you with yours.

    I also have a Podcast called "CoParent Courage" where I give insights into Co-Parenting and answer questions that listeners ask. Check it out here:

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