The Future Of Your Child Is At Stake... Make sure YOU are the one that is going to shape it for them.

What if... you never fought with your Co-Parent ever again?

What if... your child never shed another tear from a missed pick-up or forgotten birthday?

What if you could experience a peace-of-mind with your Child Custody Agreement that you never had to worry about it again?

You can! You can feel peace and the comfort of knowing that your child is safe, loved and that you are in control.

This might not seem possible, but it is. Even if you feel like your current relationship with your Co-Parent is beyond repair. Even if you are about to get a Divorce or you are already broken up.

You CAN have a Child Custody agreement that works and it all starts here.

It's 100% Perfectly Legal To Create Your Child Custody Agreement On Your Own, Free From Expensive Attorneys and Time-Consuming Court Dates

To get the Child Custody Agreement you want, you must first understand your Co-Parent. I'm not talking about the things you think you understand, but what actually works to get them to agree to a self-created Plan.

Many times we feel misunderstood or not listened to by our Previous Partner. This is a frustration we feel way too often when a child's time is split between two homes.

Your break-up was devastating and confusing, but where your child is and whom is taking care of them should not be complex.

And this is exactly what you are going to get figured out... along with many other things that are going give you peace and comfort as a parent.

It's not through manipulation and it's not through coersion.

The reality is that you don't catch fish with cheese pizza at the end of your fishing line. We know this already.

Which is why my book presents a way to speak to your Co-Parentings listening like you've never done before.

Your Previous Partner is going to expect you to show up a certain way, which is why you are going to do the opposite... and why it works every time.

Your Step-By-Step Roadmap to A Child Custody Agreement

Learning how to connect to your Co-Parent in a real way is much easier than pretending, managing and analyzing everything they do.

This doesn't mean you need to be physical with them nor does it mean that you need to cater to their every demand and whim.

In fact, a real-world Child Custody Agreement can be effortless. All it takes is some simple shifts in your words and body language to turn around a "have to" conversation into look like "opportunity" to them.

And when someone sees an opportunity for themselves, you can create anything you want.

That is the real secret to creating an authentic Child Custody Agreement that works.


Create Your Custody Agreement Now

Try my eBook "Custody Without Courts" and...

  • Get the Peace you are looking for. This means not worrying about where your child is, what they are doing and whom they are doing it with.
  • Don't waste your money on expensive attorneys or baby-sitters for having to go to a bunch of court dates.
  • Make a "DIY" Agreement that you can immediately start to use.

  • All of this for only $29.97, plus you get a free 20 minute one-on-one counseling session to get you started off on the right foot.

    Click the "Download Now" button to get my book:


    I will walk you through the step-by-step tools, how-to's and secrets you can immediately put to use. After learning and practicing these tools, you'll soon have a Child Custody Agreement that is going to work.

    And when I say "is going to work", I mean something you can start using the day you create it.

    This isn't about games and manipultaion, rather it's about getting you the peace you need.

    And you will do this in a very authentic and expressive way. You'll be free from the constraints of "have to" and soon your Co-Parent will be working with you because they will see the opportunity for themselves.

    In My Book, You'll Learn:

    • The Five Emotional Mistakes I Made... and how to avoid them.
    • How To (literally) Re-Create Your Previous Partner As A New Person.
    • An Excercise in Empathy That You Can Immediately Use To Help Your Co-Parent Relate to You.
    • The 8 Important Categories That Are Going To Make Up Your Child Custody Agreement.
    • Why Time is a new currency and how to "exchange it" with your Co-Parent.
    • How often and when you will need to revise your plan.
    • An easy way to setup a shared calendaring system that is accessible from any smart phone.
    • The Way to Never Be a Victim again and Take Back the Power of Past Relationships.

    This Roadmap Saved My Sanity

    It's not impossible to transform someone's attitude and schedule overnight, but with my Child Custody Blueprint you will at the very least know what to expect from your Co-Parent.

    It's frustrating to get caught in the "might have's" and "should have's" that are often excuses for missed drop-offs, late school arrivals and forgetting soccer uniforms.

    "Custody Without Courts" cuts through indecision and gives you a clear and concise path when it comes to your Child Custody Agreement.

    It's all about what is best for your child.

    Don't Decide Now...Try My Book For 30 days and get a Bonus Counseling Session.

    I'm 100% confident that I can help you transform your Child Custody challenges that I'm willing to refund your money if you don't get a solid Agreement created within 30 days.

    Get my book now and give it a try. If it's not going to work for you within the first month, just write me directly and I will refund your money - no questions asked.

    It didn't work out long-term between you and your Previous Partner, but that doesn't mean there needs to be anxiety, stress and frustration between you. Especially when it's about your child.

    You know as well as I do, that if you want to escape the trap of lawyers and the State determining who is fit to be a parent, you are going to need to work with a Co-Parent.

    And in order to work together, one of you is going to need to take initiative. It might as well be you.

    As unreasonable as it might sound to suggest that you "work with your Previous Partner", I assure you that when you start to put the "Custody Without Courts" Book into action, things are going to change.

    Don't let a confusing Court System or an expensive attorney decide how and when you can see your child.

    Take control now, if not for your own sanity but for the sake of your child.

    It's not about power or clout... As you are about to learn, you can get a Child Custody Agreement handled with anyone, regardless of how well you get along now.

    Your child's future is worth creating a plan that is workable.

    My Book is just $29.97 and is only available from this site. I offer a 30-Day Money Back Guarentee: If you are unsatisfied for any reason, I will refund this cost and let you keep the Book. You get the download link immediately sent to you so you can start reading it within the next 5 minutes.

    Let me ask you this: What if you applied the knowledge in my book and came to an agreement that put your Child first and got you exactly what you want without fighting or frustration?

    What would you pay to have that kind of peace in your life? A hundred dollars? A thousand dollars? Ten thousand or more? For most Co-Parents, it’s literally priceless.

    Just the POSSIBILITY of being able to talk to my Co-Parent and be heard, understood and respected is a feeling that I can’t put a price on.

    I wish that I would have been able to spend $29.97 and cut through the months of heartache and needless bickering. I would have paid hundreds of dollars, if not more, for the insight and experience I ended up learning "the hard way".

    I’ve personally invested over 14 years in a co-created and self-managed Child Custody Agreement. I’ve also helped other single parent families create transformed relationships with their Co-Parents.

    This much is for sure: If you don’t get this handled it’s just going to continue to frustrate both you and your Co-Parent, not to mention that your Child is going to be exposed to conflict and fighting. And no one wants that.

    It’s an amazing feeling when you don’t have the buzz of a Co-Parent constantly in your ear, or that gnawing feeling that they want to punish you. It’s freeing to you know exactly when a Co-Parent is going to show up and when you are dropping your kids off.

    In turn, this frees you up. You can begin by spending quality time with your kids and focusing on things that matter to them. You can take on things that are going to better you, like losing weight to be healthier for your children and saving money by not having to hire an attorney to represent you.

    I have one final thought to share with you.

    After being personally involved with Co-Parents for almost two decades I know one thing: If you don’t make the decision to get this part of your life handled right now, there’s a very small chance that you’re going to do anything about it in the future.

    I’ve seen this time and time again with Co-Parents that just “put up with” their Previous Partner.

    Have you heard the saying "you can’t tell someone how to get somewhere unless you’ve been there yourself?" Well, I’ve been there and I’m going to show you the way.

    This is possibly the most important investment you’ll ever make for yourself and your children.

    It's available as a PDF (for a computer or laptop), ePub (for iPad) and Mobi (for Kindle), so you can read it on any device that you have.

    Click the Download button below for a secure checkout and to get instant access to the "Custody Without Courts" Book.

    And, for a limited time, I am offering 20 minute counseling sessions with the purchase of the "Custody Without Courts" book. These are setup using your Phone or Skype, whichever is easier for you. It's important to me that you get this handled and I want to do everything I can to help you.

    Don't Let The Court System Decide Your Child's Future

    In the grand scheme of life, we have so little time with our children.

    And as responsible parents, it's our job to raise responsible adults.

    Our children learn from us and if we can't get along with the mistakes of Past Relationships, we're at a danger of setting poor examples for our children. And that doesn't benefit anyone.

    Make sure that you get what's best for your child by setting up a Child Custody Plan that puts them first.

    Thank you for being part of my journey. My greatest hope is that I help you with yours.

    About Thom

    My name is Thom and I wrote the book "Custody Without Courts" after setting up my own Custody Agreement over 14 years ago. I live in Portland, Oregon with my Family and Co-Parent. For work, I do IT Administration for a Relationship Advice company and enjoy spending time with my kids. My Daughter is active in Music and Art and my Son plays Soccer and Basketball.



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